No one is born the way she/he is now. Someone who seems strong must had gone through something in life, she must had been weak. So don’t think that she won’t fall. Someone who seems weak might not be what you think, she could be stronger than you think. So don’t think that she cannot handle life. We all grow up in circumstances and life that make us who we are now. Everyone has a story, different. Everyone deserves to be loved. But when you meet people who have gone through their own stories and are strong, yes they can take control of their lives. In fact everyone has that ability. But that is when they need to be loved, cared and shown concern for, given support, be taken care of, be respected, and be loved. That is when they deserve it all the more.